Sharing NSFW details about her struggles to get sexually intimate with her husband, the 'All About That Bass' hitmaker claims she's tried every position and describes getting on top as 'a nightmare.'
- Apr 27, 2023
AceShowbiz - Making love is apparently not that fun for Meghan Trainor. The singer, who is currently expecting her second child with her husband Daryl Sabara, has gotten candid about her "painful" sexual experiences with her spouse because he is a "big boy" and her vagina is "little."
The pop star shared the NSFW details about her sex life on her "Workin' On It" podcast. "My husband is a big boy. My p***y is broken, though. I have p***y anxiety," she told her brother Ryan Trainor and guest host Trisha Paytas. Asked by the YouTuber if it's because Meghan's vagina is "little" and Daryl's penis is "big," the Grammy winner replied, "Yes!"
"To the point where I'm like 'Is it all in?' and he's like, 'Just the tip,' And I'm like, 'I can't do anymore.' I don't know how to fix that," she shared. The 29-year-old added that she wishes "she could make Daryl smaller. It's painful, dude."
Meghan revealed went to the doctor and was diagnosed with vaginismus, which is defined as "a spasm of the muscles surrounding the vagina that occurs against your will" that "makes the vagina very narrow and can prevent sexual activity and medical exams," according to Mount Sinai.
"I was told I have something called vaginismus," the "Lips Are Movin" songstress added. "I thought that every woman walking around was always in pain during and after sex. I was like, 'Doc, are you telling me that I could have sex and not feel a single bit of pain?' "
After welcoming their first child Riley, Meghan admitted she experienced difficulty with sex "for a year." She recalled thinking, " 'Do not look at me, do not touch me.' It took me so long to even consider having sex with him."
The "Australian Idol" judge praised her husband as a "saint" as she said he remained patient with her throughout the period of time, during which she still "made sure he was fine." When they did get intimate after a year, she felt "stingy" and "burny."
"As he would penetrate, I would be like, 'Ow, ow, ow,' like to the point when I was making this baby, I had to ice myself after," she explained. "And we're not crazy, I'm a starfish - I go, 'Get it done.' We're having fun, it's great. Get it done. And then I'm icing myself and I go, 'There's gotta be another way.' "
Meghan also claimed she's tried "every angle" and "each one is worse than the other," especially getting on top, which she described as "a nightmare." She said her actor husband has asked her to "try" various styles of sex, but "I'm like, 'Don't look at me. I don't like this. This hurts way worse.' "
"I'm like, 'Daryl, I have to work today, and I can't walk,' " the "Made You Look" songstress said of how she would feel afterward. She's also tried transcendental meditation to remedy the situation, but it didn't work.
Still, Meghan hasn't lost hope that she'll find a way to enjoy sexual intercourse some day. "I'm gonna figure it out," she declared. "I'm gonna be a star at sex."
