The 'Only Murders in the Building' star shares her insights on navigating friendships in the celebrity circle, preferring to steer clear of the 'cool girls' circle to hang out with 'levelheaded people.'
- Jun 4, 2024
AceShowbiz - Selena Gomez, the celebrated actress and singer, has garnered attention for her candid discussions on friendship and loneliness. Despite her long-standing presence in Hollywood and even being pal with one of the biggest stars Taylor Swift, Gomez has maintained a tight-knit circle of friends, choosing to surround herself with "levelheaded people" who are not involved in the entertainment industry.
In a recent profile published by Time, Gomez opened up about the difficulties she has faced in forming genuine friendships within the industry. "It's a cliche, but girls are mean," she stated. "It's a very weird competition, being in the cool girls' area - and then I'm just kind of like, there. I don't know where I'm meant to belong."
Gomez emphasized the importance of having friends who do not care about her fame, revealing that her closest friends include a casting director, a producer, and a real estate agent. "I love having levelheaded people around that couldn't give two f***s about what I do," she added. This approach has allowed her to form deeper, more authentic connections away from the pressures of fame.
Her current relationship with music producer Benny Blanco has also brought some clarity and happiness into her life. The pair went public in December 2023, and despite the scrutiny from fans, Gomez remains grounded.
"He isn't my only source of happiness," she shared. "I was alone for five years, and I got really used to it. A lot of people are afraid of being alone, and I probably tortured myself in my head for like two years being alone, and then I kind of accepted it."
Gomez had previously planned to adopt a child by the age of 35 if she hadn't met someone special. However, her relationship with Blanco has altered those plans. Gomez cherishes every moment spent with him, saying, "I don't know what the future holds, but I do know that he's not going anywhere any time soon."
Loneliness continues to be a significant theme in Gomez's life, reflective of a broader societal issue. "You could be in a crowd of people and still feel alone. I still deal with that," she admitted. This sentiment resonates deeply, especially in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic, which further exacerbated feelings of isolation for many.
Selena Gomez's openness about her struggles with mental health and loneliness, along with her efforts to cultivate meaningful relationships, offers an important perspective for young people navigating similar challenges. Her story underscores the value of authenticity and the need for supportive, genuine connections in a world often preoccupied with superficiality.
