AceShowbiz - Heather Rae Young, known for her role in "Selling Sunset," faced an unwarranted critique over her choice of attire during a family Christmas celebration. Young, who is married to Tarek El Moussa, was criticized by a social media user for wearing a red lace dress deemed "not appropriate" for a mother. The follower remarked, "The dress is not appropriate. Your [sic] a mother now."

Young's response was both poignant and composed. "So because I'm a mother I can't wear a pretty dress that makes me feel beautiful? What does that have to do with anything?" she clapped back. "I am still a human and my name is Heather I'm not just a mother. Choose joy."

It's not the first time Young has had to address such comments. Previously, she proactively clarified situations involving her stepdaughter Taylor, 14, when Taylor wasn't present in family photos. "For the haters - Tay is on a trip with her mom, that's why she's not in our photo," she explained during Thanksgiving.

Young's approach to dealing with criticism is not merely about defending her personal fashion choices but also about fostering a positive environment. She wrote on her Instagram Story, "Comments like this make me laugh. I don't even get offended anymore by the rudeness of others. I choose to spread joy not hate." This philosophy is a refreshing take on how to handle social media negativity.

Her stand on choosing joy over responding to hate resonates with many, particularly young people navigating their own online spaces. The scrutiny public figures face can often be more intense, but Young's reactions offer a guide to maintaining self-esteem and a positive approach in the face of negativity.

Taylor is Tarek's daughter from his previous marriage to Christina Haack. Despite divorce, they maintain amicable relationship and even do a show together with Heather. "Christina is doing great," Tarek said about his ex-wife amid her recent divorce, highlighting the supportive relationship within their blended family. Heather, Tarek, and Christina work together on their show "The Flip Off," showing a united front despite past dramas.

Young's story is a reminder that confidence and kindness can prevail. Her methods of addressing criticism create a blueprint for managing not just public but personal challenges with grace and positivity. In a world where online harassment is commonplace, choosing joy and staying grounded as Heather Rae Young does could make all the difference.