More than two years since the 'Mortdecai' actress announced her 'conscious uncoupling' with the Coldplay frontman, she now admits she often 'feel angry or jealous or whatever, broken-hearted.'
- Apr 28, 2016
AceShowbiz - Gwyneth Paltrow opens up about her current relationship with her ex-husband Chris Martin in an interview with Red's June issue. Gwyneth reveals that she and Chris "still do love each other" more than two years since they announced their "conscious uncoupling."
"I think that I'm very lucky in that I have such a willing partner in agreeing with, and teaching me, as much as I taught him," Gwyneth tells the mag, "And bringing to me, as much as I brought to him, ideas about how to do it in a really gentle way, so it would be really gentle for Chris and myself because we loved each other very much and we still do love each other and we have these two beautiful children together."
"And I thought, I wonder if there's a way where we don't have to do that to our kids and we can just carry on having family dinners," she continues.
However, Gwyneth admits that it didn't happen overnight. "Time is an important part in it as well," she explains, "We had broken up a year before we announced it, so we would have this time to work through everything. But it's also almost about having to press the 'override' button whenever you feel angry or jealous or whatever, broken-hearted. You have to press the button � I'm going back to the baseline of I love this person, he's the father of my children, he's a wonderful man. I'm just going to put my s**t aside for right now."
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She admits, "It really has not been easy for me at times, I'm sure it's not been easy for him. But when we said we're going to put the children first, we meant [it]," the "Iron Man" actress adds, "If you want to put your children first then why are you slagging your husband off in front of them?"
"So we really tried [and] that meant I'm gonna check my s**t at the door, and I'm going to focus on all the reasons that I love you, that you're like my brother and my family forever and we'll deal with that stuff another time," she continues, "It's not always easy, but it's just the way we wanted to try to do it. I have to say it wasn't the outcome we were hoping for, but it was our outcome and we've really done the best that we can."
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The last three years have been especially transformative for Gwyneth. "At 40, my life changed so much," the 43-year-old actress shares, "I think every woman around that time gets this massive software upgrade. You're just different. You're upgraded. For me there were just a bunch of changes I had to make to really be true to myself and really live my happiness."
"And you have to be brave and make the choice to do that, to truly accept yourself and love yourself and really forgive yourself for your mis-steps. So it's been a long interesting road to get to the place where I feel really content and that I really know myself and like myself. I wish they could teach girls to do this when they are 16 instead of 40, but that's part of life," she adds.
